EPISODE 47: Should You Trust Your Partner with Your Finances?

Oct 24

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THE LOWDOWN

Hey, hey! In this episode, I’m diving into something that sparked a conversation (and a bit of debate) on Facebook—trusting your partner with your finances. Someone posted that if you trust your partner enough to have sex with them and to marry them, then you should trust them with your money. And let me tell you, I did not agree.

There’s so much to unpack here—how financial dynamics have changed across generations, the importance of financial independence (especially for women), and why trust in a relationship isn’t just one-size-fits-all.

What I cover in this episode:

Why I don’t think financial trust and physical/emotional trust are the same
How generational shifts have changed the way couples manage money
The reality of financial abuse and why keeping some independence is crucial
Personal stories and real-life examples of why separate finances can be smart
The different ways couples handle their money—and why there’s no one right way

At the end of the day, your finances are about more than just trust—they’re about security, autonomy, and protecting your future. So where do you stand? Are you all-in on joint accounts, team “keep it separate,” or somewhere in the middle? Let’s talk about it.